Porn is a malaise

My name is Carey, and I am a recovered pornoholic.
I can tell you from experience, porn is an addictive bondage, and women are not the only victims of it. A nation of men is devolving into a country of wimps. I’m serious.

And the contagion is no laughing matter. Recent outing of government employees who were caught, as it were, with their pants down, is no occasion for coarse jesting. This is no time for bored bloggers to congregate online smugly ridiculing others who are enslaved by the porn plague.

This smut infection– this marriage-crippling STD–started in the ’50s with Hugh Hefner’s dirty bomb of counterfeit desire. The invasive fallout spread epidemically like errant spermatazoa  until sometime in the 90s, when its electronic mutant version expanded virally–not viriley–on the internet.
It’s a noxious disease that robs men and women of natural love.
For me, the cure is Jesus, who blessed me with a wife of thirty years, but I know you don’t want to hear that religious stuff, so I’ll get to the matter at hand.

Do I still struggle to ignore porn? Oh yes. How could I not? The infection is everywhere you look, everywhere you go.
However, according to my worldview, a man is given but one life to live.  Therefore life itself needs to be productive. Whatever powers are resident within a man should be directed toward fruitful ends, not cast aimlessly on the ground. Whatever powers of perception–seeing–that are given to a man should be used for cultivating excellence and proficiency, not languishing in gluttonous sexual dysfunction.
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Sharing love with a woman is a most productive state of being. Even if children do not result, the bounty of coital union strengthens all aspects of faithful love, and mellows with age like fine wine.
But to your cast pearls into an idolotrous counterfeit is to agree with death’s destructive pull on your brief life. It’s a dead end.
Men, find something better to do with your time and your assets than looking at fake women and making jest of others’ perversion.
If you don’t have a good woman but you want one, then sharpen your life skills until you can attract one, and when you do find her, take the time to faithfully love her, and don’t throw her away like and old magazine.

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